Projections

In any relationship, it is very important to talk. Everything that is not voiced remains in the Shadow. And instead of contact, fantasies are born.

Fantasies about what the other wants, what they need, how exactly they experience it. These fantasies become projections. What is in your head is attributed to the Other. Sometimes the projection takes up the entire space of the relationship, and nothing living remains from real people. And then there is an abyss, where no one hears or understands each other, and dead pictures hang in the air.